In order to inspire others to give up smoking for good using hypnotherapy, past clients who have benefited from my Hypnotherapy Program, have kindly given permission for their stories, commemts and emails to be included below:
I came and saw you back in January, I just wanted to send a email to say thank you for your help and support, I am still smoke-free and haven't had a cigarette since our session . You made me feel very comfortable and relaxed through the sessions. I have recommended you to a couple of people.
Thank you so much as this has changed my life
Mark F (2017)
Just wanted to drop you a quick email to thank you and to let you know that I have still not smoked, even when I was away skiing and my friends were smoking around me. I sometime feel that I want a cigarette but when I think about it the want leaves my mind straight away. I have recommended you to a number of my friends that may get in touch with you.
Hi Rue, Well it's been 1 year since I saw you and gave up smoking. Just want to say thank you once again. I feel 100% fitter, can taste food again and just generally feel so much better! I've actually had quite a few people ask for your details because they're so impressed with how I've done! Louise H
Thankyou so much for stopping me smoking although I smoked 20 a day I have not even thought about having one since I walked out after seeing you, it has changed my life as I now breathe easier, less stressed out strange as that might seem. Also my breath and clothes smell so much nicer now and my teeth are whiter already.
You made me feel so comfortable about it all I will always be so grateful to you.
Thanking you once again for your kindness and understanding.
Well it has been six months now, to the day, since you released me from my 'captivity'. Although I have had two 'drags' one night when I was drunk, I have not had a cigarette since our session. Thank you!.... Thanks again for your help in getting me off my addiction.
Just to say that it is now 21 days since I saw you and quit smoking. Since seeing you I see myself as someone who used to smoke in the past - I have been out for drinks and meals and not even thought about having a cigarette (even when people/friends are smoking around me) which is amazing and very empowering. I feel I have taken back control and am not a slave to smoking anymore and its wonderful!!! Thank you so much for your help.
I came to see you around June/July this year for a couple of sessions to help me stop smoking (nicotine gum, in my case)
I just wanted to drop you a note to say that it has been a success and i consider it a major achievement.
The relaxation technique you gave me was very helpful, when i applied it and i am sure this contributed to a sustained success.
So thank you once again
I just wanted to give you the news. All is ok as a non-smoker, I would like to smoke but I am not suffering or struggling saying no, nor do I keep thinking of it which is the best thing.
Thank you & wish you all the best Claudia
Good news - I have stopped since the 18th. Thank you for everything you've done. I've got a little chest infection but that's because I've quit. Thank you so much.
it's now been 6 weeks or so since my session so wanted to give you some proper feedback now things have settled down. I'm very pleased to say that i am 100% confident that smoking is firmly in my past.
Without a doubt i was ready to stop, my mind was set on it but i really felt i needed something extra to achieve it. As you know i was very open to the concept of hypnosis and i think that even the small experience i had of meditating helped the process to 'work'. I must confess i was not disciplined about doing the breathing exercise for the full 21 days! My limit was about 5mins before i stopped. i did however practice a form of mindfulness, concentrating on the task in hand, one at a time, also listening to my body & watching for signs of stress hunger or boredom that may have (previously) triggered the urge to smoke. i looked after myself with diet, gentle exercise & most of all lots of sleep!
The effect of not smoking is astonishing - it's just not something i need to worry about anymore (& good grief, i did worry!). I am enjoying my leisure time so much more. I've been for lots of meals out, cinema, theatre, trips to london and everything is more fun & relaxing when i'm not thinking about if / when i can get a cigarette.
This whole experience has given my confidence such a boost, hearing my friends tell me how proud they are of me makes me feel 10 feet tall! I'm going to use this achievement as a foundation on which to continue to build myself up - aim for goals i never felt I could reach before now.
So, a big huge heartfelt thank you for helping me set off on an exciting journey! I have recommended you to a few people who wish to stop, i'm sure they'll contact you when they're ready.
all the best
'We were hypnotised by you last week. Just to let you know that I was out drinking over the weekend and didn't have a cigarette. I just wanted to say thank you very much and it worked for Kate as well. I appreciate what you've done - and just thought I'd let you know that it did work. Thank you. '
Kate & Audrey, Brighton
I just wanted to let you know how I was getting on since I saw you nearly a month ago.
I am delighted to say I have not even been close to having a cigarette and have remained a non smoker since I saw you and will continue to do so.
I had no real withdrawals at all, just the psychological memory and association of it, which as time goes by you replace with the now as a non smoker! My holiday was incredibly easy, in fact easier than when I got back to work, but even then after a few uncomfortable days of being stressed and not smoking, I was fine.
So thank you so much, you have definitely made it so much easier than I thought it would be. I think the key thing is that you made me feel relaxed and calm about giving up smoking and there was much less panic or stress about it in those important first few days/weeks, which was incredibly helpful.
I wish you continued success and will certainly recommend you to anyone I know who wants to stop smoking.
With best wishes,
'I've been meaning to call you. I haven't smoked since 20th October - thanks.' Vanessa
Just a quick email to say no news is good news and that you have not heard from me before because I have not had a cigarette since our final session in November.
I have to say that pangs have been relatively few and not too hard to resist, even in smoking environments, jet lagged on a business trip, and the high stress of Christmas, so I am very optimistic at this point. The scientist in me wants to do the "controlled experiment" on myself of giving up with and without hypnosis but I am happy just to have quit.
So happy new year and thanks.
Just thought you would like to know that I have so far, successfully stopped smoking - Thank you.
I would be happy to recommend Rue Asher for her friendly and professional approach. I have now got rid of my 15 year habit and I still use one of the techniques to help de-stress after work. I haven’t had any noticeable cravings or weight gain which were concerns and found the whole process simple, powerful and well formatted.
(David C. Lewes)
Found the session to be thorough, professional and Rue to be an extremely competent therapist who practices what she preaches. She stopped me from smoking so I would highly recommend her to any unhappy smokers.
(Chris A. Uckfield)
A quick email to say thanks so much for helping Steve and myself quit. The [Kick start] session was just what we both needed and one of the best presents I’ve ever bought him. Thanks again Rue, we’re now putting some of the money we’ve saved from cigarettes towards a holiday this year.
(Deborah and Steve K. Brighton)
I've been asked to write a few words about my experience of giving up smoking with Rue Asher. Having put any pre-conceived ideas about hypnosis to one side, my experience was in fact surprisingly positive, as I really didn’t know what to expect. During the session Rue explained to me what to expect and that all I had to do was listen as I sat there quietly. I found the hypnosis part to be a comfortable and pleasant sensation with the odd stray thought cropping up. I have now successfully overcome my twenty a day habit and have not smoked since my appointment a year ago. My health and fitness has improved dramatically and my husband no longer has to put up with the foul smell on my clothes and hair. I am therefore more than happy to recommend her to anyone who is seriously thinking of giving up.
(Mrs. P Dean, Ditchling)
Many thanks. Can’t remember feeling so relaxed. I had my last cigarette on the day of our last meeting and that was it, job done!
(Peter T. Ringmer)
Thank you for your caring and non-judgmental manner, your voice was very reassuring and the lovely surroundings of your home really put me at ease. Just to bring you up to date, I’ve had one small relapse after a couple of drinks, stupid I know, but remembered your advice, so I won’t be doing that again. My partner and I really can’t thank you enough for all your help.
(Karen W. Kemptown)
The [Kick Start] session was great so I don’t think I’ll need the Booster after all. I’m still with the NHS group so I’m getting the extra support, but it definitely made all the difference (I’ve passed on your details to a few interested parties).
Thanks for your help - still no cravings.
(Andy T. Burgess Hill)
I don’t know what you did but it worked.
Your lovely room and friendly manner really helped me to relax. I can now confidently tell people I’m a non-smoker.
(Tessa K. - Burgess Hill)
Really impressed with the session I had four weeks ago. After 13 years smoking I havent missed them at all. Really amazing!
(Anne S. – Worthing)
Just to let you know, I’m doing really well (it’s been 14 days now).
(Lucy R. – Hove)
Been down to the pub a few times… and still not had one.
(Helen M. – Brighton)
I’m telling every smoker I know to come and see you - keep up the good work.
A great investment haven’t even thought about another cigarette.
(Clive F. - Hove)
Hi Rue, just a quick email to let you know that I’m still not smoking!
(Jade P. - Hassocks)
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